Yesterday, one of
antof9's posts got me thinking about my family, and our tendency to be sarcastic. I grew up surrounded by sarcasm, and I must admit to having used it aggressively in unkind ways during my school days (to my victims, I humbly apologize). Sarcasm was such an integral part of our communication style that we were hardly conscious of it. When he was in high school, my youngest brother (by far the most sarcastic of us all) made a sarcastic comment to someone with an underdeveloped sense of sarcasm. To his surprise, she completely misinterpreted his comment. That evening, he related the story to our parents. "Some people aren't sarcastic!" he observed in amazement. It was a moment of some insight for him, apparently. Of course, he continues to be a wonderfully sarcastic person. He is also a master at the deadpan delivery, which makes his sarcasm all the more devastating. When he gets on a role, he can absolutely bring me to tears. I look forward to his infrequent visits (he lives halfway around the world in Jakarta), and this month is a reminder of one of the many reasons why.
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